Lastly, I understand that there are exceptions to every rule.
I will ignore any comments that say things like “Not all Russian women are like that” or “One time I met a Russian girl who was not like that.” Yeah, I know, exception to the rule, but as always, the exception proves the rule.
On that second date, before we went into a fancy bar, we took a quick walk around an adjacent mall. “It’s my birthday next week,” she said, again nodding at the perfume. Several times more, she kept trying to get me to buy this 0 bottle of perfume. We had only met one time before, and we had never had sex or anything else like that.
At the Nordstrom’s store, she stopped and started trying various perfumes. Finally, she realized I wasn’t going to buy her the damn thing, so she relented, and we went to the bar. In the car, while dropping her off back at her place, she got very sexual but didn’t get to sex (she refused to go to my place and refused to let me into her place).
I’ve mentioned before that several years ago, I completely stopped dating Russian women.
I’ve discussed the general reasons, but I don’t think I’ve ever given specifics as to why I made this decision.
Note that most of these were many years ago, so if you have any critiques on my game or my actions, just remember that.
Russian Girl 1: I was once on a first date with a Russian girl and we were more or less hitting it off.
I thought it was very strange and obviously a terrible idea, but since I’m outcome independent, it didn’t bother me.
Finally, after about ten minutes of this, she pointed at a certain bottle of perfume and told me she “really wanted it.” Price tag: 0. She then sent me a long, angry tirade about how I am a “very rude man” and how I “don’t know how to treat women” and that she never wanted to see me again. I only want to be with a man who treats women nicely! Five minutes later, just as I was about to drive away, she responded saying that she’ll be right down. She gets in the car and almost immediately starts loudly complaining about her apartment, one of her girlfriends, and about my car.
When I asked what her issue was, she said, “It’s my birthday next week! ” When I reminded her that I bought her both drinks and some food at the bar, she said, “If I wanted to eat last night I would have stayed home and ate with my daughter! Russian Girl 3 I once scheduled a first date with a Russian woman, about 25 years old. Remember, this is a first date so I had never met her in real life before. She spends the entire first date loudly, and I mean loudly complaining about various different things, from her ex-boyfriend, to her mom, to politics, to her job, and just about everything else you can think of.
Today, I will demonstrate exactly why I had to very reluctantly, permanently boycott Russian women from my dating life.
As always, we need to get our definitions straight.