Maybe the Noah to your Allie is the better comparison here. Now ask yourself a few questions about your current boyfriend: What do you love about him? It might help you really consider what you like and don’t like about both of them and help you make a decision.It may be that they're okay with her choosing both of them.I won't say that happens often, but it does happen more often than most people think.He knows what he wants and he won't waste your time if you're not it. He won't have a nervous breakdown about meeting your parents. Added bonus: He'll probably get along with your parents better because he's a little (tiny! Not that he's old, but he'll rock out to Hendrix with your dad in the man cave and not feel too weird about it.8. Practice makes orgasms, or however that saying goes.9.You didn't want to be with that guy who wanted an "outdoorsy girl" anyway. And he knows that vulvas don't usually look like two unused Pink Pearl erasers and smell like Bath and Body Works vanilla bean. Either way, older guys are more likely to be the most comfortable snuggle you've ever had.12. Have you ever seen an early-twentysomething guy get handed a baby?But before, after and in between those two moments, there can be lots of signals that your friend has a crush on you — or that you have a crush on them, or that you are both super hung up on each other and it's only a matter of time before you start making out.
"You secretly find yourself wishing that they would break up."You might even go as far as negatively impacting their relationship.He is an Older Man and his texting knows no bounds.No, you can look forward to text from him either the next day or never. But if you're right for each other, you can count on him being the Jack to your Rose. Not that he's going to die in a freak boat accident a week after you start dating.Thankfully, most guys grow out of being the Leg Hair Police in their mid-20s. In his years of dating, he's probably been with a woman during a pregnancy scare and now fully understands the value of family planning.14.By the time they're 27, they could be sleeping with a sexy Chewbacca for all they care. He has his own friends and job and hobbies and schedule.The standard narrative is that she chooses one of them, because she can only be with one.The unconventional, but more intellectually honest, choice is she talks to both of them about the situation, finds out where they're both at, and assess what's on the table.It’s not fair to him for you to stay with him while you have feelings for someone else – especially since you’ve already acted on those feelings.Be honest with both of these dudes and tell them you’re super confused and you need some time to yourself to think.No matter what the circumstances or the situation, whether you're the one with the secret crush, you suspect your friend likes you, or it's a mix of the two, here are some reliable flags to tell if your friendship is becoming something more. If you're sitting around zoning out about your friend in class or at work, you have feelings for them. "Your heart beats faster when you see them, know you are going to see them, or hear from them," she says."Romantic fantasies when you are apart" are a huge giveaway, Dr. Basically, if you can't stop thinking about them, it means you've got it bad for them. These can often strike especially hard when you find out your friend is in a relationship, or if they get into something new as your friendship unfolds.