Most t-girls are good people, but there are those who should be avoided. - You must screen your t-girl friends just as you would screen any other potential friends or lovers.
Do they possess undesirable traits such as drug addiction, alcohol abuse, criminal intent, HIV , etc? afety is a very important consideration that cannot be overlooked just because you have a raging hardon!
A few simple questions will reveal many of these undesirable traits.
Here is a good rule to follow; Don't refer to anyone as a shemale, transsexual, transvestite, etc.
until you have asked what she prefers to be called.
This is a generic term that fits most t-girls and is rarely offensive.
Whether in person or in writing, making a good first impression is critical for success.