And the women he has talked on the phone at night in the past work with him on his team.
He used to tell me things, but now he doesn’t talk about them.
My boyfriend of almost 5 years moved to where I live about 4 years ago.
We don’t live together but have been exclusive to each other the entire time he has lived here anyway.
When the immediate threat of punishment looms large, it is easy to get a partner to change their ways.But, it is difficult to change a person’s underlying feelings and emotions.This is important to highlight: Short-term behavioral change is relatively easy; changing someone’s underlying emotions is difficult. You should be treated the way you want to be treated, and anything less can lead to feelings of betrayal (see what counts as cheating). Relationships involve three different emotional systems—sexual desire, love and attachment (see sex, love, attachment).Will this only get worse as time goes on, if we were to marry or live with one another?I have my whole heart invested in this man, and we do have the best chemistry I’ve ever had with anyone.I love him, but I am not sure if he will ever understand boundaries in a relationship even though I’ve asked him straight out—maybe you’re not meant to be in a long-term relationship and he says that this ‘our relationship’ is what he has always wanted all of his life. Punish your boyfriend for his behavior, and he will hide it from you (see react poorly).But, this does not mean that he will change his behavior when you are not around. My feelings towards this are based on a background of a not so good start to a relationship. I hate to go into all the details, but I will try to sum it up and lay the groundwork for my question.And she told me in confidence, that I will never have peace or harmony in this relationship because he has NO boundaries.He thinks as long as he is not pursuing them sexually that everything else is okay.