Why not bring your talents and skills to the Human Rights Campaign?We offer a wide-range of job opportunities as well as a multidisciplinary internship program.I am a straight male with a highly stigmatized kink.
We also have plenty of sex that isn't P in V, which takes the pressure off both of us.
It helped my husband understand himself and his reactions better, and it helped cement the idea of "ours" instead of "yours" as it related to the problems I was dealing with at the time.
That he was willing to see a counselor and work on sex were also good signs.
I strongly suspect that perseverance and a bit of luck were also major factors.
Practice, Practice, Practice My sex life improved after marriage.